Porn Backlash

Tommy and my Home movies that were meant to be personal - were stolen from our house while construction was going on/ we were naked most the time and in love. (An entire safe was stolen- including the bikini I was married in) I'm no prude. I just worry about the fate of monogamous loving relationships. The best kind of love.

Tommy and I did not profit from the spliced together silly vacation videos. We fought as hard as we could against it - and did not accept any offers (in the millions) once it was out. The damage was done. I was pregnant with my son - the stress was so great in depositions. Tommy was worried about me and the stress that our baby might be feeling. We had to stop fighting to ensure a healthy pregnancy. The Brett tape surfaced after the Tapes with Tommy. (Suspicious/yes) I was told there was no film in the camera. (Years before) That it was only a projection on the wall for us. Both have nothing to do with being my choice-  I know it ended up inspiring desperate celebrities to follow suit but they were made on purpose for money and fame. That was not our case. 

Playboy was killed by porn. Playboy to me was innocent. And I stand by my statement. We must learn to make love again. It will save us. 

We are living in a post human world. And, I have had more people thank me this last week for bringing up. Than whiners protecting their perverted habits. There are men that are heterosexual out there that have never touched a woman because of porn addiction. It isn't enough for them to be with a loving breathing committed woman. It has infected our societies. Leading to more sex slavery and vulnerable people in abusive neglectful relationships. I recognize perception of my concern might seem hypocritical. I was a playboy playmate. Not a porn star. 

The worst lovers are porn abusers. I've unfortunately met a few. 

I've been writing my book 'The Sensual Revolution' and now 'The Men's guide to The Erogenous Mind' Rabbi Shmuley and I have decided to co-author. Thinking our 2 very different perspectives make an interesting conversation arriving at the same conclusion. Porn is for losers. A desensitized group that are afraid of vulnerability. Lazy and creepy. It seemed appropriate to write an op ed piece now- and shake people awake. Bring on the debate. I'm ready to discuss in depth anytime. 

Hope to hear from you soon.